Living with CML
How to navigate the physical and emotional challenges brought on by a diagnosis of chronic myelogenous leukemia
Try to do small
things to take care of
yourself every day.
Read a good book,
watch a favorite
movie, or listen to
your favorite music.
If you’ve been diagnosed with chronic myelogenous leukemia, you may need help with practical tasks, such as sorting through treatment information, managing side effects, and finding financial help for medical expenses. Your healthcare team, which can include your doctor, CML specialist, nurse, social worker, and others, can assist you in many of these areas. Here are some steps you can take to find the support you need.
Take an active role in your medical
care.
When it comes to medical
treatment for CML, you have many
options. Getting a second opinion is
recommended, as is consulting with
a leukemia expert before choosing a
treatment. (Both of these are covered
by most insurance plans.) You can
choose to be treated at a major cancer
center or to receive your care locally,
with your doctor consulting with a CML
expert about your case. If you grow
resistant to a particular drug, other treatments
or clinical trials are available.
Your healthcare team can answer your
questions and help you make the decisions
that are right for you. Developing
a relationship with all the members of
your team is critical to getting the best
care possible.
Do your research.
Finding reliable
information and using it to make decisions
is one of the key tasks for people
with CML. This is important because
the more you know about CML, the
more comfortable you will be in your
role as an active member of your healthcare
team. Although the Internet is a
valuable source of information, figuring
out which websites are most accurate
and up-to-date can be challenging. An
oncology social worker can provide
guidance on evaluating the information
you find.
Reach out to experts for help in
managing side effects.
Fatigue, nausea,
and diarrhea are some of the side
effects commonly experienced by people
receiving targeted treatments for
CML. Other common side effects include
dry skin, dry mouth, and weight
gain. Special lotions with a higher
content of moisturizers help with dry
skin (ask your nurse for recommendations),
and your dentist can prescribe
special products, such as nonalcoholic
mouth rinses, to lessen the effects of
dry mouth. For help in creating a
well-balanced diet tailored to your
needs during and after treatment, consult
a hospital nutritionist.
The more you know about CML, the more comfortable you will be in your role as an active member of your healthcare team.
Get organized.
Maintaining a datebook
lets you keep track of medical
and other appointments and helps provide
peace of mind. It also allows you
to schedule enjoyable events to keep
a healthy balance of activities in your
life. Keeping all your medical information
in one place, such as a three-ring
binder, makes it easy to find what you
need quickly and easily. Organize the
information in a way that works best
for you. For example, you might have
a divider for each doctor, or for each
health issue you are keeping track of.
Be resourceful.
The financial strain
of cancer is often overwhelming, but
help is available. For those who are
eligible, CancerCareprovides limited
financial grants to help with cancerrelated
costs, such as transportation to
and from treatment or childcare when
you are ill. Social workers can help
you explore other options, such as government
assistance.
Researchers have made great strides in treating people with CML. Because of the effectiveness of targeted treatments like imatinib mesylate (Gleevec®) and dasatinib (Sprycel®), for some people, having CML is similar to having a chronic illness. Their condition is managed well, and they live with it for a long time. While this offers increased hope for people diagnosed with CML, a long-term illness presents its own set of emotional challenges. Here are some tips for managing the emotional challenges of coping with CML over the long term.
Develop good communication with
your healthcare team.
Being able to
talk easily and comfortably with the
members of your healthcare team, such
as your doctor, nurse, or social worker,
goes a long way in helping you feel more
in control. Remember that you, too, are
a key member of this team. Taking an
active role in your care helps you feel
more involved. Preparing a list of questions
before your appointments is one
way to make sure all your concerns are
being addressed, as well as asking someone
to join you so you can process the
information afterward together.
Stay in touch with the people
who comfort you.
Family and friends,
whether they live next door or far away,
are important members of your team.
The practical help they provide on lowenergy
days, and the comfort they can
bring you, can be considered a form
of “treatment.” Sometimes it’s hard to
ask for or accept help. You may worry
that you’ll be a bother or burden, but
family and friends usually want to help
and be involved. If that’s the case, let
them – it’s reassuring for them and good
for your health. Visits, phone calls, letters,
and emails are all good ways to
keep in touch and get support from
those who care about you.
Acknowledge your emotions.
A chronic illness might make it necessary
for you to adjust the plans you had
for yourself, and this can affect you
emotionally. For example, people sometimes
struggle with feelings of sadness
or worry as they think about facing the
future with a long-term illness. A support
group can connect you with others
in similar situations who can share how
they are coping. Individual counseling
is also available to help you to live as
full and active a life as possible.
Draw strength from your spiritual
side.
Strength comes from many different
sources. One place people often
turn to when coping with illness is spirituality,
which can refer to one’s religious
beliefs, faith, or life philosophy. Spirituality
is about finding purpose and comfort
in your own personal understanding of
the meaning of life. Examples of activities
that let you explore your spiritual
side include prayer, meditation, and
reading life-affirming texts.
Invest in your own resilience.
Resilience
is the ability to manage whatever
might come your way. Having a good
support system is part of being resilient,
but so is being good to yourself. Try
to do small things to take care of yourself
every day. Read a good book, buy
yourself a small gift, watch a favorite
movie, or listen to your favorite music.
These may sound like luxuries, but
pampering yourself in little ways goes
a long way in helping you adjust to life
with CML. Treating yourself right and
finding new ways to enjoy life will help
you accommodate any changes CML
may bring.
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No matter what practical and emotional challenges you may be coping with, remember that you are not alone. CancerCare’s professional oncology social workers provide free counseling, support groups, educational materials, financial help, and referrals to other resources in your community. Call (800) 813-HOPE (4673) to learn more about CancerCare’s free professional services and educational materials, or visit CancerCare.org.
Excerpted with permission from CancerCare.org, copyright © 2011 by CancerCare.
This article was published in Coping® with Cancer magazine, July/August 2011.


